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“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.” — Matthew 5:9 (KJV)
In a world that often celebrates confrontation and rewards dominance, the art of being at peace with others is increasingly undervalued. Yet, Scripture paints a very different picture, one in which peace is not only a command but a channel through which blessings, growth, and divine identity flow. In this article, we will explore why being at peace with others is not just a moral virtue but also a catalyst for emotional, spiritual, physical, financial, and career growth.
The Biblical Call to Be Peacemakers
The Bible doesn’t merely suggest peace, it commands it.
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.” — Romans 12:18 (KJV)
Peacemaking is at the heart of Christ's teachings. From turning the other cheek (Matthew 5:39) to forgiving seventy times seven (Matthew 18:22), Jesus emphasized relationships built not on conflict, but on grace and reconciliation. When we pursue peace with others, we imitate our Father in heaven, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ.
“Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord.” — Hebrews 12:14 (KJV)
This verse ties peace and holiness together, stressing that without both, we cannot fully experience God.
Peace Brings Inner Wholeness and Health
Choosing peace doesn't mean ignoring conflict; it means responding to it with grace and wisdom. Scientific studies have shown that people who live free from chronic conflict and bitterness tend to have:
1. Lower blood pressure
2. Better heart health
3. Reduced stress levels
4. Stronger immune systems
“A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.” — Proverbs 14:30 (NIV)
Forgiveness and letting go of offenses, cornerstones of peace, ; both mental and physical health. Harboring grudges, on the other hand, releases stress hormones that can damage your body over time.
Peace Improves Relationships and Community
Peacemakers don't just keep the peace; they build it. In families, workplaces, churches, and communities, those who pursue peace help create environments of trust, collaboration, and mutual respect.
“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” — Ephesians 4:3 (NIV)
When you're known as someone who brings calm and clarity, others are drawn to you. They feel safe, heard, and valued, which makes your voice more influential and your relationships deeper.
Peace Contributes to Financial and Career Growth
Conflict is costly, in every sense of the word. Arguments, office drama, broken partnerships, and grudges can stifle opportunities, promotions, and collaborations. Conversely, peacemakers often rise in leadership because they demonstrate emotional intelligence and relational maturity.
“Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” — James 3:18 (NIV)
Peacemaking fosters an environment where ideas thrive, partnerships flourish, and innovation can take root. If you're a businessperson or a professional, being at peace with others can help you:
1. Retain clients and customers
2. Build a positive personal brand
3. Improve teamwork and productivity
4. Gain favor with superiors and subordinates
In Proverbs 16:7, we read:
“When a man's ways please the Lord, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.”
A life aligned with God’s ways invites favor, not just from people, but from God Himself.
Peace Enhances Your Spiritual Witness
The Gospel is a message of reconciliation and peace between God and humanity. When we live at peace with others, we embody the message we proclaim. It adds weight to our witness and power to our prayers.
“Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.” — Romans 14:19 (KJV)
Our pursuit of peace is not passive; it's intentional. It's choosing to forgive, to speak gently, to avoid gossip, and to pursue understanding, even when it’s hard.
Keys to Being a Peacemaker
1. Pray for wisdom and patience - (James 1:5)
2. Avoid unnecessary arguments - (Proverbs 20:3)
3. Practice active listening - (James 1:19)
4. Let go of offense quickly - (Ephesians 4:26–27)
5. Pursue reconciliation - (Matthew 18:15)
6. Speak the truth in love - (Ephesians 4:15)
7. Be quick to forgive - (Colossians 3:13)
Conclusion: A Call to Peace
Peacemaking is not weakness; it’s strength under control. It’s the courageous, often costly, act of choosing unity over ego, healing over hurt, and love over being “right.” When we walk in peace, we walk like Jesus.
Let this be your prayer:
“Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love. Where there is offense, let me sow forgiveness. Where there is division, let me be a bridge.”
Because blessed are the peacemakers, not only are they called God’s children, but they also carry God’s peace into every room, relationship, and opportunity.